Freedom Friday

Elevate Your Leadership by Quieting the Ego!

Pause here. Take a moment to regulate your breath:

Inhale deeply... exhale slowly...Bring your full awareness to this present moment... Center yourself... Be here—fully.

As leaders, we’re often faced with the challenge of influencing others effectively. But here’s a hard truth: ego can be a silent barrier to influence.

Too often, we think that louder, more assertive communication is the key to leading, but what if the opposite is true?

It's time to master the art of truth-telling—with yourself and others.

Ask yourself: Are you speaking in a way that empowers those around you? Or are you unconsciously blocking their ability to hear your message?

People simply cannot hear you when:

• You make them wrong.

• You attack their weaknesses.

• You place yourself above them.

• You hold even a shred of judgment or criticism.

The most impactful leaders communicate in a way that fosters connection, growth, and trust.

How do you speak so you are heard?

• Speak from the heart, with authenticity and vulnerability.

• Lead with compassion, empathy, and genuine concern.

• Position yourself as a teacher—guiding others, not from a place of superiority, but from shared humanity.

• Be a healer to their challenges and growth edges.

• See your role as a steward of their next level—emotionally, spiritually, and professionally.

This week, take a moment to reflect on how your words and actions are shaping those you lead.

Are you inspiring or undermining?

Remember, your leadership is not about being "right"—it's about being a beacon for growth.

You’ve got this!

Coach Tavia

References:

Vanzant, Iyanla. Acts of Faith: Daily Meditations for People of Color. Atria, 2020.

Vanzant, Iyanla. Until Today: Daily Devotions for Spiritual Growth and Peace of Mind. Atria, 2020.

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